When you think of retirement, what do you think about? Is it those additional games of golf, spending a few months every year in the sun and lots of time with the grandkids? Or instead do you think about your pension fund and silently worry that you might not have enough money to do all the things that you want to do?
Yes, we recognise the important role that we play in minimising that financial worry and helping you to build up a pension fund that will allow you to live your life in retirement on your own terms. We do this with clients every day and to be honest, this is “meat and drink” to us! However we also recognise how important it is for us to help you to take a much more holistic view of retirement, and that is our focus here.
So let’s assume that together we’ve done the best job possible on the financial side and that you have the financial means to live your life to the full in retirement. What else do you need to think about?
Being together fulltime
Think about it – day one of your retirement. You wake up, not to the sound of the alarm clock but at your leisure. Your spouse who has been at home fulltime for the last few years is busy about his/her usual routine. Where do you fit in?
There are of course many ways to approach this. The wrong way is probably to just assume everything is now changed because you’re around! Instead you need to recognise that your partner may love their routine and don’t want this changed too much. Equally they need to be aware of the momentous shift in your life, and that you may struggle for a while to build your own new routine, both of your own activities and hopefully shared activities.
This is not the time for the “bull in a china shop” approach! Instead awareness of each other’s space, routines and hopes for the future together are crucial. The key to this is talking about it and working through it together.
The thinking around this needs to begin long before retirement. The working day, including your commuting time often punched in 11 or 12 hours every day. That’s a lot of time to fill now, so how are you going to do it? Are you going to play lots of golf? Are you going to study or do voluntary work? Are you going to spend time out and about visiting all those places you’d been promising to see, but never had the time?
Have a plan and fill as many of your days as possible with activities that interest you and make you feel good about yourself. Keep your mind and body active. Your life will be one long day after another if you end up falling asleep in front of afternoon TV shows!
Mind your health
The simple task of getting up and going to work was good for your health, often followed by some exercise in the evenings. Now is the time to increase the focus on healthy habits, not cut back on them. You have more time now to exercise than ever before, so use it. That might be golf, it might be a brisk walk or a visit to the local gym – the instructors there will devise a fitness programme suitable for you.
Apart from the physical benefits, this will also be very important for your mental health. Physical exercise makes you feel better about yourself, so reap the rewards both physically and mentally.
Stay aware of maintaining your mental fitness too. Spend time with friends, do the crossword, read and study. Stay sharp.
With more time on your hands, you also have the opportunity to spend more time preparing healthier meals for yourself. The excuse of another takeaway because you’re late home just won’t wash anymore! Make good food a hobby – taking the time to get fresh, healthy ingredients and then spending a bit of time on food preparation.
Remember your value
You have so much to offer in terms of experience, expertise and time. Some people can retire with a perceived loss of value. Previously a company and colleagues relied upon you, and now that is gone. All that actually needs to change here though is that previously you were paid for your time and expertise, while now you can still offer this but maybe without payment. You will do it on your terms, only in areas that interest you, at times that suit you and in ways that make you feel good about yourself. You will add enormous value, whether that’s to a voluntary organisation, coaching a sports team or mentoring less experienced business owners.
Having your finances in order is very important for a happy and satisfying retirement. But it’s the other factors that will make you feel good about yourself and will help you live your life to the full for many years to come.